

“You have to turn your ghosts into ancestors”
In my last blog I touched on the bountiful pool of resources that we can find in our ancestry. How in moments of disruption or being...


“In our ancestry, there are many answers we need today…”
In these thorny times, we can derive strength from looking back to the story of our ancestors. In our ancestral tree lie not only the...


Love is an invitation to travel to the past and back
Relationships help us to evolve, like a mirror shining a light back to us. Patterns that originate in our childhood have the ability to...


Flamenco, break-dance or waltz? What is your Dance with Mother like?
Expansion and retraction. The two essential movements in life. In expansion, I am open, I am interested in the world, I say yes to the...


Me, my family and Life.
“What are Family Constellations useful for?” Every time someone asks me this question, I have a different answer. I know I am not alone...


When parents are happy, children are more free to live their life
Many parents are worried about their children's well being, trying to do their best to support them. Anxiety, depression, suicidal...


"If movement is natural then standing still costs energy"
An interesting idea from Moving questions. How to let questions work for you, a great book by Siets Bakker, an organizational consultant...


On migration
Migration, flow, movement, grief, letting go, adaptation, compromise, longing, honoring, being torn, blending, dancing between homes…...


Our life is a testimonial of thousands of stories of success
Trauma seems to be passed onto the next generations when it is not integrated. So we can assume that most of us have inherited the memory...