Trauma and healing are not purely of the individual, neither are our gains or losses. David Whyte says that “you cannot be a good writer in isolation. You must read other writers”. Writing, learning and healing are not possible in isolation. We can only do this in community, in relationship to others. This is where learning and healing happen. Constellations constantly reveal that there is no individual solution, that what is good for everyone is also good for me. 2021 has b