Many participants in my workshops come with the same longing: “I want to position myself”. “I want to belong”. “I want to find my place”. A young soccer player who arrives in a new team wants to have a place. He craves for acceptance and being liked by his peers. Depending on his ability to relate to others, the integration into the group will be more or less challenging, it will take more or less time. If he is shy, chances are that he will stand on the outskirts of the grou