

“Sometimes the Soul has the Need to Become Visible”
Physical symptoms are an invitation to look deeper into our Soul. Like a friend who has an important message for us, a message that we...


Love is an invitation to travel to the past and back
Relationships help us to evolve, like a mirror shining a light back to us. Patterns that originate in our childhood have the ability to...


The Best Present for Christmas
“All of humanity’s problems stem from a man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” This quote from Blaise Pascal dating from the...


“Acknowledging what is" or how to make friends with my fear
Bert Hellinger’s words “Acknowledging what is” are fluttering in my mind. On social media and around me I am seeing and hearing many...


Flamenco, break-dance or waltz? What is your Dance with Mother like?
Expansion and retraction. The two essential movements in life. In expansion, I am open, I am interested in the world, I say yes to the...


Me, my family and Life.
“What are Family Constellations useful for?” Every time someone asks me this question, I have a different answer. I know I am not alone...


"Wanderer, your footsteps are the road..."
“Wanderer, your footsteps are the road, and nothing more; wanderer, there is no road, the road is made by walking. By walking one makes...


When parents are happy, children are more free to live their life
Many parents are worried about their children's well being, trying to do their best to support them. Anxiety, depression, suicidal...


"If movement is natural then standing still costs energy"
An interesting idea from Moving questions. How to let questions work for you, a great book by Siets Bakker, an organizational consultant...


“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.”
Many of us have heard these words from Maya Angelou, wise and simple. Still, they are sometimes difficult to apply. Suffering usually...